Click It Solve It Generation

These days I strongly feel that though keeping up with growing technology I still see some generation gap with respect to thought line with new generations. This generation is real lucky with respect to all technology but what they have not grasped is accepting rejection in any sort, whether the rejection is about getting something from parent or rejection for love proposal.
These days’ newspapers are full of acid attacks, suicide, harassment, etc. This generation has really not grown up to understand the real meaning of love.  If someone is rejecting you doesn't mean you should wear that rejection. Instead the rejection can be channelized in good directions. History has proved that when rejection is channelized in right direction it has always been succeeding. Why we have to spoil the person’s life or dignity?
If we really love the person, one should give space to him/her. It is all about respecting his/her decision. It may not be that rejection is only because the person is not inclined to you. It may have many multifaceted dimensions which he/she could not or may be doesn't want to share with you.  We should just remain calm and accept the fact that right now it’s not possible. It may or may not work out later. But channelizing the rejection in destructive manner is not going to take you anywhere. Instead it’s only going to increase hatred in the mind of the person you love.
I feel, I am still in a generation where I would love to mend things whether it is relationship or things rather than replacing it or throwing it. We all have heartbreaks at some point of time in life. But unrequited love is supportive alliance against mishaps of life like career, parenting, etc. It teaches us a far lot many things about life. It helps us to stand up for life. And truly speaking life is really beyond love, marriages, sex, and children. It is about creating a beautiful masterpiece and all other things are just part of it. They will happen when they are to happen.
I don’t know how this generation is going to understand the truth of rejection. I think it is parent also who are responsible who give them everything before even they complete the demand. I also don’t believe in waiting endlessly in waiting for someone who is just keeping you hanging because this is a fast world. But also destroying the person is not an answer to the rejections.

I still believe to fall in love but accept the rejection maturely and give space and respect the decision of the person.

 - Deepti

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