Dont be football of other people's opinion.....

"I think you should do this" "I think you should not behave like this" I think you should learn something"

Aren't these sentences heard somewhere. Yes we all hear this sentences everyday in our life. There are so many people around us who have their own opinion about our life. They keep saying things and we keep following them. For every given situation everyone has a say. They all have want others to behave like that.
 may be consciously or unconsciously. There are people who rather want to be more possessive to get their opinion bombarded on us. And we keep behaving according to others. They make you feel so low if their opinions are not considered that you start behaving like that. If anything goes wrong after their opinion is accepted then they are free to give their next set of opinions.

Why we forget that we do have our own say, our own thoughts and our own intelligence to deal with situations. Why do we have to be listening to every other person in our life. We are just like football who keeps moving from one point to other based on other peoples opinion. I don't say that we need not listen to anybody. I just want to say we should know the important people in our life to listen to them. We need not keep doing everything as everyone says. We own our life and akhir meri zindagi jo bhi hogi wo meri wajah se hogi, buri ya achi aur iska dosh me kisiko nahi dungi kyoki ye meri zindagi hai.

Always apply your common sense and intelligence for your own situations in life and don't be a football after all its your life and your are the owner of it.

- Deepti

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