Kyo Ki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu thi

Now from the title you would feel that its all about Mother In Law and Daughter in Law. But there you are absolutely wrong. I had seen this series when it was having highest TRP. I never understood why it was titled like that. But now I have understood.

What I understand is a particular place when occupied by someone is always replaced by next generation or may be someone else. This change is inevitable and necessity for forward move. But what I want to share is not a particular place but a particular situation in which people are. People have such a unique way of changing their thoughts when their situation changes. And they actually forget that they were in same place some days back before commenting or advising friends or family.

I have had my share of such experiences too. May be even you must have come across it. Just like a particular situation I remember is in my group of friends I particularly, I and another friend of mine had this time limit in the night to reach home. After some days she got married and we had a plan to meet for a get together. As it was my time to reach home, that very particular friend told me why are you in so rush? Just chill and tell your mom that am safe. I was literally astonished because she was the same girl who would run and ignore everything just as it would be time to reach home. Now that her situation has changed and she can go any time along with her husband, she got a liberty to say so many things. I felt bad that these particular statements came from her. If it would have been from other friends I would not have been so astonished. Why we just don’t understand that situation has changed only for her and not the other person. How come people forget that they were also in same place some days back?

Do we really forget that we were in that place? Do we become so blind and bask in the glory of what fate has given us that we just don’t feel the other person. It so astonishes that people forget everything happened to them in past. They have actually managed to sail through the situation but when they have got it they just change their behavior. Life always treats you the way you manage and behave when you have nothing or everything. Finally life is all about “How you manage when you have nothing and how you behave when you have everything”

 - Deepti

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