Funda(s) - A little thoughtful!

"The Show must Go On"- We hear this many a times in our life. This is the best line for any show biz but it aptly suits our Life. Life is a show and whatever come, however broken you are the show must go on. Life should and will go on. At times Life hits you in every god damn way. It hits you emotionally, it hits you spiritually, it hits you mentally, it hits you financially, and many other ways. Sometimes life is so brutal that it hits you in all the ways at the very same time. It takes you to the rock bottom.  I think the biggest hit is Emotional Hit. Many a times emotional hit is by other person's behavior. Sometimes people just take unilateral decisions without informing others or the person who would be affected by it. They just decide for themselves and walk away. One of the surprise is that they just don't come back and try to sort things out or explain the situation. They dont come back to see what they have done and help them to overcome.  May b

Response and Reaction – Superficially both seem to be the same. It is how we reply to a situation. But there is a very fine line of difference in Response and Reaction which hampers the outcome in a big way. Many of us always react to situations and never respond. Reactions most of the times led to unhappy people and/or worsen the situation. Reaction is what we all commonly do. We just react to any situation or emotion on spur of moment without thinking about the repercussions. We don’t control our emotions, analyse the situation and react. We just let it out. We just get angry or irritated by everything happening in a particular moment.  Reactions are always superficial and never thought.  Major drawback for reaction is bitter relations leading to separations. Reaction is not always the best way to retort any situation. Response is a well thought. The reply and its repercussions are processed. This is exactly what we should do but we never do. Response is to look at our e

Now from the title you would feel that its all about Mother In Law and Daughter in Law. But there you are absolutely wrong. I had seen this series when it was having highest TRP. I never understood why it was titled like that. But now I have understood. What I understand is a particular place when occupied by someone is always replaced by next generation or may be someone else. This change is inevitable and necessity for forward move. But what I want to share is not a particular place but a particular situation in which people are. People have such a unique way of changing their thoughts when their situation changes. And they actually forget that they were in same place some days back before commenting or advising friends or family. I have had my share of such experiences too. May be even you must have come across it. Just like a particular situation I remember is in my group of friends I particularly, I and another friend of mine had this time limit in the night to reach hom

These days I strongly feel that though keeping up with growing technology I still see some generation gap with respect to thought line with new generations. This generation is real lucky with respect to all technology but what they have not grasped is accepting rejection in any sort, whether the rejection is about getting something from parent or rejection for love proposal. These days’ newspapers are full of acid attacks, suicide, harassment, etc. This generation has really not grown up to understand the real meaning of love.  If someone is rejecting you  doesn't  mean you should wear that rejection. Instead the rejection can be channelized in good directions. History has proved that when rejection is channelized in right direction it has always been succeeding. Why we have to spoil the person’s life or dignity? If we really love the person, one should give space to him/her. It is all about respecting his/her decision. It may not be that rejection is only because the person

Off the late I have experienced changing relation from everyone right from near and dear ones to just acquaintances. I have actually failed to understand what has changed things over night. Rather I feel do people stop thinking or may be their brain just go on strike. There is this one person, who is actually leaving the organization but has said loads of things to seniors. He has just come up with any kind of argument which is completely baseless. How come he forgot that he has been strengthen to this extend only because of his seniors here. His seniors have game him so much exposure and knowledge bank that he is able to go out in world and stand to something. In this I feel, whatever, even if you have to go, go with dignity. You are leaving an organization, its not necessary to break every relation to be left behind. It’s not wise to hurt. One can never succeed by hurting others. The growth becomes stagnated. He learnt everything but was not able to learn behavior respect f

Some days back I was sent for LDP Training. This first module of training was about “Manage Self” Before reaching the venue I just had my own preconception that it would just be about managing time and work and put things in places. But it was totally different, something which we always know but always forgets. We always forget the “I” in us. It is actually a capital “I” which means that you are also important and equally deserving. But with all the chores of life right from family to work to deadline this “I” is lost and we only remember it as small “i” So true. We always forget everything about us in our busy life. We just don’t have time to sit back and think about ourselves, our self as individual. We actually need to hit hard to remember when was the last time we spent time with our self and yes we do remember spending time with spouse, family, friends, office etc every single person but not “I” in this busy lives we forget about enjoying small things in life. As we gro

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